Thursday, May 1, 2008

Not everyone knows this...

But there is an official state religion in Denmark. People are slightly fanatical about it, and they’re not afraid to tell you.  

You see it described in their Facebook profiles, and it's obvious when you visit any ‘house of worship’ Sunday morning. It’s organized and it's everywhere, and frankly, at times, it has me taking a step back. 

The religion is called atheism, and it operates within a brand of fundamentalism. You can find many mainstream atheists - those who don’t sneer at others – who welcome conversation with persons of a different faith. But frankly, they don’t run in my circles.

On one of my 4 recent business trips to the U.S. in the last 5 weeks, my colleagues and I were seated on a flight next to a Danish missionary. 

He was a real live one – a Christian something (not sure which denomination). This thin, 30-something man with a receding hairline, an overbite and pink gums that were

            (not a missionary, min kæreste ) 

revealed every time he smiled (about every 5 seconds) was a real talker. Curiosity shone in his eyes when he learned we were from an advertising agency. “Heck, maybe he wanted our service in helping to brand God,” laughed a board-room full of colleagues a few weeks later.

This friendly missionary, who wanted little more than to hear about our work, elicited the scorn and fear of a group of educated, talented, self-professed open-minded adverts. ‘What a fool, that man.’ Clearly he didn’t get the memo that people in the Kingdom choose intellect over naiveté. And those who do not, apparently haven’t got the smarts to know better.

This sweet man, and all of our chatter, broke my heart. 

Many will huff that they have no problem with religion or spiritual persons– “just as long as they keep me out of it, and respect that I believe it’s a crock of shit” .... while not appreciating that such proactive haughtiness can be just as off-putting as any proselytizing sermon from a stranger.  

Organized religion is one of those grand narratives like the Enlightenment, the Renaissance, liberalism, conservatism, and Studio 54 that my knee-jerk reaction wants to reject. Wannabe postmodernist that I am. We tend to over-privelge meta-narratives at the expense of missing the smaller ones. Where pearls of wisdom and nuggets of nonsense reside. The poetics of postmodernism urge us to raise an eyebrow to grand narratives. But applying the inverse of that same logic, shouldn’t I look with equal suspicion on the grand rejection.

America is a spiritual nation, where Judeo-Christian values inform our lifestyles, our traditions and our modes of conduct. For better or for worse, it is ours to celebrate or denigrate, but thankfully, we have a well-constructed system that separates church and state, so that schools, government and the judicial system cannot infringe on an individual’s right to believe in whatever combination of deities they like, or not. A wise Danish thinker, Camelia, once told me that the interesting thing about America is that for every major movement that appears, so does its counter-movement. A concept like “intelligent design” gives me the willies, but most Americans don’t give it the attention it doesn’t deserve. For this naïve American, Copenhagen tends to feel like one big counter-movement, that has forgotten what it runs perpendicular to. What was once fringe-full and progressive has become fundamental and common. A bit monochromatic, I long for some bible thumping, some Hora wedding dancing, some sweaty “1-800-send-me-your-cash” preachers, and conversations somewhere in the middle, where the faithful person isn’t labeled weak or a dunce.

In the American paradigm, it’s easier for me to fight for the little guy – the quiet dissenter or the non-believer. Perhaps he’s looking for someone to have brunch with on Sunday mornings. But there was a time I was perusing an admissions book from Harvard Divinity School, to see if a master’s degree in religious studies was something worth pursuing.

Like many, I’m still searching for answers, but I’m not smart, wise, or arrogant enough to commit to any yet. It’s possible I was more interested in belonging to the Church of Harvard than any religious program.

But I admire those who have found their own belief system. It would be rude to call it simplistic or any easy escape. I’m happy America is built the way it is.

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Last spring, a talented and shrewd Danish professor told me that he knew the minute I walked into his classroom that I was an American. I found that odd. How could he know? He elaborated, “There’s just something in the gaze of an American.”

His words have echoed over the last 19 months throughout my tenure in Denmark. I’ve grown adept at picking out Americans on the street. It’s easiest to spot when strolling down the long shopping street of the Strøget. My success rate is about 95%, and when in doubt, I shimmy past the group in question to hear them talking. It’s not just the white tennis shoes or the track-suits that no one else is wearing, and it's more than the obnoxiously higher volume of voice. It’s something in the gaze of an American.

Maybe it’s faith. In something higher and bigger. Maybe its faith in nothing. Whatever it is, it’s palpable, and it speaks to other humans. 

Mostly, it's an attitude that says faith doesn’t necessarily transcend knowledge, but the two can co-exist. Intellectual rationalism is all well and good, but hampered by the capacities of our lowly functioning brains.

And on that note, I’ll suspend my ribbing of Denmark’s shabby chic atheism and try to understand it in the context of European nations who have seen bloodshed, the Holocaust, ethnic cleansing, the crusades, and much more, on their home turf, in the name of religion.   

The process of belong to a beliefs system is something I’m ill-equipped discussing. But it deserves its rightful share of discussion without derision. 

Likewise, so is disbelief. And that is another lesson Denmark is teaching me. 

If you have any answers, you know how to reach me.    


(Hermosa Beach, California - Sunday morning)

3 comments:

Camelia said...

From Palladas: Poems (Tony Harrison)

1
Think of your conception, you'll soon forget
what Plato puffs you up with, all that
'immortality' and 'divine life' stuff.

Man, why dost thou think of Heaven? Nay
Consider thine origins in common clay


's one way of putting it but not blunt enough.

Think of your father, sweating, drooling, drunk,
you, his spark of lust, his spurt of spunk.

2
Ignorant of all logic and all law
Fortune follows her own blind course,
kind to the criminal, trumpling on the just,
flunting her irrational, brute force.

3
Life's a performance. Either join in
lightheartedly, or thole the pain.

4
Born naked. Buried naked. So why fuss?
All life leads to that first nakedness.

5
Born crying, and after crying, die.
It's seems the life of man's just one long cry.

Pitiful and weak and full of tears,
Man shows his face on earth and disappears.

[The poem has 69 stanzas which are all worth reading - a tour de force. Enjoy!]

Happy Agnostic said...

Great post!

Chic or not, Danish atheism is probably not the result of denunciation through historical insight nor is it, in most cases, atheism in its more hardcore Richard Dawking like form.

Some 82% of the population are still members of the Danish State Church and pay a premium for a membership that to most is limited to a (perhaps unholy) trinity of events: Christening, Marriage, Burial

In this respect, most Danes would probably declare themselves as being cultural-Christians; again with very little knowledge of what that could even mean in a historical context.

My own theory of the "disbeliefication" of Denmark is rooted in both history and the general individualisation of society.

H.C. Andersen once said:
“Troen gives, den tænker man sig ikke til!”
(Faith is given to you, it is not something you think up)

And this is precisely what most Danes have gone through; been handed a religion from childhood, been taught about it through school (yes, until a few years ago the class was even named Kristendom, now just called Religion) and then, without being asked or even prompted, enrolled in the appropriately named Church Tax when turning 18 (you need to proactively cancel your membership).

In other words - religion is a given institution in Denmark and most Danes are thus born into a very structural and organized belief system.

Danish society has for the last 50 years seen a quest for personal liberation from almost any existing cultural or social structure.
Refuting the authoritative in any way, shape or form: from governmental institutions to personal freedom rights and on to “rebellion” against authoritative figures within the family.
Combined with the overall craving for being “modern” or even post-modern :) and the general advances and adaptation of "knowledge" as the commodity across natural, economic and social -sciences, it is little wonder that people simply start loosing their institutionalized religion as they “free” themselves from the established, in perfect accordance with the general discourse.

How people express their disbelief in belief is an entirely different matter. And one in which good upbringing and general respect for other people are more revealing than disbelief in itself.

I’m not so sure that the poor chap on the plane would have received much less a dose of disdain had he been something other than a missionary, as long as he was still of the same talkative and kind nature.

Of course his belief added a punch line to it, but the phenomenon you stumbled upon in mid air was, in my objective, more a case of the awful and unfortunately typical Danish way of being afraid to engage with people you don’t know. Especially, if the other person does not immediately emit compatible social codes: education, dress, occupation, looks, (dis)belief? etc.

When on a plane or on a longer train ride, I always observe with sadness how most people refrain from even saying “Goddag!” to each other, and God forbid?!, to enter into a real conversation.

It is as if people are hiding behind a shield of misunderstood individuality; afraid that if they engage another person, they will immediately be seen by others as if they inherited the social properties of that individual, and perhaps be the next center of ridicule from their peers.

In an ever more polarized society, it has become far more acceptable to laugh and point fingers at anyone who’s not an immediate member of your own social group, perceived or not.

I have seen how people, friends even, can get embarrassed if spoken to by a complete stranger. People are so afraid of exposing any side of themselves lest they break the immaculate façade they carry in a misconstrued belief that it alone brings respect and acceptance from their surroundings.

It wasn’t always this way I think. I remember as a small kid how I often wondered why my dad had so many friends. He would always chat to people on trains, planes, automobiles - regardless.
And people would talk to him / us and most other people that I saw would do the same.
Apart from my own little theory I cannot explain the shift that has taken place, but a shift it has been.

The unfriendliness towards belief and people of belief, has unfortunately become a sum more harsh than its constituent parts would ever justify - but so too has the general exclusion of anyone from a “different” group; even, and I actually dare say especially, perpetrated unconsciously by the so called creative class.

Sorry for the long post! :)

Camryn said...

Thanks for your feedback, K! Many interesting points you raise, especially when you track the rise of cultural-christianity. It makes a bit more sense now.

Take care!